March 24, Advice , Modern sexuality , The swinging lifestyle The perks of travel and living in different countries extend beyond having the opportunity to vary your gastronomical diet. While we do not claim to have the absolute truth, we are now at least far beyond sample size of one to report on some general characteristics of at least a couple of nations.
One stands out in particular β Germany. Make your own mistakes. This also extends to the sex scene beyond the one you have to pay for. While barely tolerated for females, is a near-complete no-go for males β at least in mixed scenarios such as swinger clubs. A little research reveals that this trait extends far beyond Berlin. Reading German sex forums would be a relevant study for the Kinsey people, where users regularly post miserable and illogical questions about differences in homo and bisexuality.
The common theme of which seems to be males that are afraid to live out their bisexual side β lest they turn gay, abandon their wives and find themselves rejected by family and society. Just wow. Again, this is past the sample size of one and is a recurring theme throughout forums and conversations. Have a quick look through the various threads on Joyclub. With that, I wholeheartedly agree. You know, just in case it enrages them and they get the urge to invade France again.
That was unfair. Language barrier much? Unfriendly, xenophobic and downright rude behavior is to be expected by default. Exceptions exist but are few and far between. Both cultural regions are hardly pro-sexual, pro-female, open minded heralds of a free, liberal and equal humanity. Middle eastern men are predatory in all the bad ways you can imagine, hold no regard for women what so ever and in sexual relations are taught that nothing is valid except for their own wishes, whims, and desires.
Arab men in sex clubs in mixed scenarios are particularly bad, and here I can agree with the Germans that contact with them should be minimized. They will circle women like hyenas, disregarding the non-touching rules that apply in every club and generally try to get a feel of whatever exposed area of unguarded skin that may exist. Religion makes everything toxic No one is sorrier than me for having to repeatedly draw this conclusion, but with a little socio-cultural investigation, the smoking gun of sexual ineptitude and intolerance almost always leads to religious origins.
